Do You Have What I'm Looking For?

THIS. Read it.

You're only as enslaved/stuck as you choose to accept
Fear is how they control you.

At the end of the day....she's hailing a taxi cab...and you happen to be on the block when it comes along.
Trust in one thing I know about women, they get what they want, given even a modicum of time or some marginal amount of screening. So many dudes swim past them in the stream they just get to be a bit choosier for the most part.

No woman is settling into something she doesn't on some level want.
But it does not stop there.

WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT??
Do you even motherfucking know?
I'll tell you what I want: dark-haired, petite, not American, does not want children, debates marriage as an institution, good to high quality job, intelligent and feminine.

The worry mongers out there immediately say "oh, no, you're too specific you won't find what you're looking for."
See that? Hear that fear?
It's fear-based.
You are limited by your own beliefs and fear.

Do other girls cross my path or work their way inside, occasionally, strippers, young fresh-faced suicide girls and the like....do they stay on my radar? No. They trounce in for a very brief amount of interaction, then we go back along our ways after crossing paths briefly.

Like attracts like.
We subconsciously attract and find ourselves attracted to those of similar emotional health and state.
As I have changed and my paradigm has shifted, the types of girls I find myself approaching and then also seeing has changed notably. I have managed to in the last 3 girls I've dated come onto girls unconcerned with marriage, not wanting children and with a host of other commonalities. I had NO WAY of knowing these things about them prior to investigation.
If you have a VERY VERY CLEAR mental image of what you want, this is some Law of Attraction stuff, but you will gravitate toward it and find it gravitating toward you.

I didn't convince the girl I'm seeing of how things should be. I demonstrated the traits which triggered in her some things that she must be looking for and so we have met in some temporary middle ground.

I heard a Roger Alan Currie presentation where he likens it to the following:
There's a person with $5,000 in a building. To get it you have to go in there and ask each person 3 times if they have what you're looking for. 49 of them will look at you like you're crazy. However, if you're willing to keep asking and looking, and you stay true to the task, eventually you'll find what you're looking for.

The takeaway: if you're direct and genuine and clear about your expectations: you can find what you're looking for, provided you're willing to look and ask and hunt.
You don't just pick up rocks and find what you want motherfuckers.
But if you know what you're looking for you're not blowing hours wandering around the grocery store and getting home without what the fuck you want to eat.