Are You a Want-er or a Do-er?

It's for those that do it, not those that want it.
He doesn't mince words at all.
The above is my nearly exact mentality about skill, precision, excellence, and persistence.

This is the single most important fucking decision you must make and then follow with action: are you enamored with the idea of being good at something, or are you willing to do the work necessary to become good at this thing, this skill?

PERIOD.

Do you press the envelope?
Do you go for the kill?
Are you willing to get crushed?
Err on the side of daring rather than safety, especially in the beginning.

My game at 31 has become more precise as I'm more clear about what I want and the type of interaction(s) I value.
If you're a young guy or just starting out with women, you have no fucking idea what you want.
You have no idea what you value.
You have no idea how to please a women or how a women should please you.
You simply don't know.
You need to look at it like inventing the model-T.
You must go through years of trial and error before you can sit back and watch it roll off the assembly line.
You know what people told Henry Ford when he asked them what they wanted?
A faster horse.
People LACK VISION.
Visionaries have a thousand ideas you  never hear about save the one that changes the motherfucking world.
But their dogged pursuit and persistence sets them apart.
I'm 3* and this girl I met recently put me through trials and tribulations to get just to where we are at this point.
I have been with 7* women. Wrap your brain around that number. I'm not bragging, I'm just saying, I have more experience than a good % of the male population and her natural woman game had me on my toes like no other.
It's a reminder that we are always learning, we are always students if we are intellectually honest.
I had to completely start from the ground up coming into sobriety and dating.
I had to step back, stop jerking off to internet porn, watch a lot of PUA material/direct game, look at my core beliefs, start talking to women again, start going on dates, hit on women in social settings, open women during the day at coffee shops, figure out what I want, what I am willing to offer and be willing to press for that. All while fucking sober.

I had to put in motherfucking work, time, energy, thought, consideration, analysis  et cetera.
Watching videos. Evaluating my weaknesses and insecurities. Challenge those insecurities or deficient areas by approaching and working on my direct game and my willingness to take chances and press the interaction with women.