Monday, April 14, 2014
Overall Progression
It takes a lot more to piqué my interest these days.
My game has gotten considerably tighter in the past couple months.
My ability to cue interest with a girl from the get go with the introduction, maintain eye contact, and the like has really spiked. My velocity, ability to accelerate the attraction and interest and then comfort build has really improved.
My subtle flirtatiousness has definitely gotten sharper with girls I've been meeting, like I'm speaking this very secret language with her and the smile spreads across her lips. I see many more interactions each day as an opportunity to give value, to show that this person, in this moment, has my attention and that I see they have value beyond what this dynamic in this moment demands I do along with social convention.
I've been devoting time to watching some 21 Convention stuff (which I've periodically embedded here) and it has definitely helped. Not in the sense of learning moves, but of cement-ing core beliefs into my mind and my paradigm.
You only have so many quality points you can spend on your life each day.
Things I have to have built into my day: gym/training, diet/eating healthy -which with practice is actually not time consuming, work, sleep....I mean, you don't have a lot of fucking time with which to burn gentlemen.
If you want to pursue your passions, you don't have time for that other fucking consumer worker ant/bee drone bullshit.
Fuck video games.
Fuck social media.
Fuck television.
Fuck movies.
Fuck all that noise.
They are time sucks.
Eventually, you won't even miss them.
Understand, though, there will be some dissonance when you interact with the normal folks who arranged their Sunday evening around the Walking Dead or Game of Thrones.
But, what you're left with, will be a filter through which you more quickly screen through those with whom you are less prone to connect.
It's fine.
Keep fucking going.
As I've been disconnecting from TV, from the internet, from all that modernity, somehow, I'm coming across as different to women.
"You're different" is what the less eloquent ones say.
"You're not like other guys...." is what the slightly more verbose ones articulate.
A big part of it has been changing how I view interactions with women and just people in general.
I'm open to what the day or evening holds.
I'm interested to just see what unfolds.
Without want or need or expectation. If you fundamentally believe that, it comes across in each person with whom you interact.
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