Saturday, April 19, 2014

"I"m Gonna Take Off"


You've been too available to your girl lately.
You've come over when she was available.
You've fucked her twice a day several days out of the past week.
You've been too sweet to her.

So. Much. Truth.

It's time to pull back.

You can tell she's in a quiet mood. You can tell she's off. Something about her is indifferent to you.

You put on your shoes and tell her with nonchalance, "I'm gonna take off babe."
It's not abrupt or rushed, but rather unforced and carefree.
"What? Why?"
"You don't seem like you're up for company. I'll talk to you later on babe. Decompress. Do your thing."
You don't say it with resentment, just the honest and accepting reality that she needs some space.
She wraps her arms around your waist.
And asks if you're okay.
You tell her it's fine, just that she's been quiet and everyone needs time to themselves.
She leads you to the bedroom and sits down in front of you.
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None of this is her fault.
You've been too much push and not enough pull as of late.
You've been cramming as much time in with her as both of your schedules allow.
It's time to pull back. As always, it takes a precision touch to do these longer term game pull away moves.
It works even if you don't really want to take off.
It works better if you really do want to take off as was my case because I wanted to go meet my buddy and some girls for a beer.

On some level, she always knows deep down where you're at, but the move will work regardless if the delivery is acceptable.

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