Overkill vs Apathy

I'm watching this guy.
He approaches girls and comes in waaaaaaay over the top.
I see him get blown out by 3 girls in what must be less than 5 minutes.

Meanwhile, I have 2 girls open me/talk to me over the course of the night.
I know in my mind that my physical appearance and my state control allow this to work for me.
Were I a less good looking dude I could not rely on this.
I know also, that I only occasionally see girls I'm attracted enough to or feel enough chemistry to approach. This, is, in all honesty, simply the truth. I have tried approaching for approaching's sake but my results have shown me my approaches are lackluster and uninspired when I am not that attracted to the girl.

But, that being said, if you want meat you have to be willing to hunt.
That guy, he's overcoming any limitations he might have by playing the odds and by approaching. Girls are a contact sport, the more you contact the more you score. It's that simply.

My efficiency is extremely high. If I open a girl and we hang out, we will virtually always close the deal. That being said, my overall approach numbers are exceedingly low. In fact, I've only banged one new girl since last September. I maintained two long term relationships in that time and have passed up some low hanging fruit along the way,

I've definitely been in apathy mode for the past something like 9 months. I did bang one of the all-time hottest girls I've been with in that time period but it's definitely been quality over quantity. I've passed up some opportunities since I got sober again but early sobriety always fucks my whole mind state up for picking up girls and that's something that changes with time in.

At any rate, my hat off to that dude out there last night hard charging it and getting rejected. For every girl he approached, he is closer to a girl that responds favorably.

I know I'm subconsciously doing the same. I keep dipping my toe in the water and I've met a number of girls recently and it's only a matter of time until one does virtually all the work and really hits me up for the diznick and I succumb to temptation. It's inexorable and it's what it is.

Good luck and happy hunting out there folks.
    - Yrs. in Christ