Be Firm

We have sex 4 times over the course of the day on my bed which as it's always been other than when I was married is on my floor of my sparse room.
I don't have furniture.
I don't own a TV.
I don't placate her or laugh when she's not funny.
She is incredibly hot. Even by my standards which are notoriously high according to my friends and coterie. 

We go see a movie and she does the usual pull back girls do when they're falling for me/a guy and are insecure about their emotional/physical investment compared to mine/his.

She's a bit more distant than she has been since we began hanging out.

 She's a hard one to juggle in some ways as even the most battle-hardened player is capable of self inflicted doubt.
 
As an insanely hot girl she does things a less hot girl wouldn't try with me. She's one I'll have to continually punish and manhandle at times to remind her that I am in fact the boss and that she will bend to my will, because like horses, a woman wants/needs/desire/lusts/craves to be tamed by the strong hand of a man.

She's good for me because my current/actual girlfriend is young, and I am spades ahead of her in terms of relationships skills/manipulation (is it that really?).
This new dime piece is a good test for me in that she does what I don't expect at times and frankly, is a lot like me in that regard. She doesn't follow all the rules.
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Life is confusing for a woman. Governed by your emotions? Biological drives to procreate? A society telling you what you "should" want that flies completely in the face oftentimes of what you really desire. Imagine what it is to be a woman and your face should fall in a split second.
Women have my sympathy.
Being a woman is fucking hard.
Be the rock. Be stern. Be there to be calm in the face of pressure and bask in the discomfort of struggle. She's not there to hear your problems. She is your cheerleader. She'll fawn when you kick ass and expect you to get your shit together quickly when you falter.


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"Your competition is a bunch of average to above-average guys with anything from anti-game to weak-game to above-average game. If you put in the field-time and study you can dwarf them in terms of skill in a few years of hard work."
   - From over at Roissy in DC
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I once wandered through confusing interactions with women.
If I had one baseline rule to follow approximately 90% of the time with women it is the following: do the opposite of what makes sense. 
 
I know how to act now not because I understand women any better but solely because I have observed how they react to certain behaviors and I have adjusted my behavior accordingly.
I am not a womanizer in the traditional sense of the word.
I simply paid attention to the lessons women taught me in my early 20's in college and since then and have adjusted my behavior for the best possible results.

Hate it.
Lambast me.
Deny it.
Whatever.

I act this way with women because it "works."