Proverbs

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If you want meat, be prepared to hunt.

Look like the type of guy the women you want are attracted to.
I'm routinely asked if I'm European, or where I'm from because I look very little like the boy-men who live in my city with their Old Navy off the rack outfits.
This is a good thing. I want a woman to either clearly demonstrate her interest in me or blow me off.
Save us both the time wasted of a middling conversation to nowhere of mild interest.

I like shy, attractive, non-***** girls with a low number of sexual partners.

If you know and are very clear in your mind about what you want and find attractive....it resonates outward. I attract the kind of girls I want to date. I have met guys with higher notch counts than your humble narrator.

However, I am very near non-miss in having the girls who I do approach.
If a girl goes out with me once time, the odds are more than 90% we will sleep together eventually and continue to date. I'm past the stage of getting some strange just because it's available. Despite cutting back my work hours and taking a sabbatical from my career, I like my free time.

Watching a documentary and sipping coffee or hitting the gym really is important to me.
Much more important in fact than the company of the vast majority of women.
I don't like the company of most men.
Most people are basic. They live a basic life.
They watch endless TV shows.
They cheer with the crowd and shout with the mob.
Listening to them speak hurts my brain and sensibilities. 

I innoculated myself against the wiles of women by sleeping with a lot of them.
70+. It's not really an impressive number.
What's impressive is my dating the girls that I see and find attractive because that's what I do.
It's big game hunting.
I don't come across many girls I find cute or attractive.
Maybe 1 every 3-6 months.
But I have dated most of the very attractive women I've met/approached and pursued.

You want to date the average looking women most dudes date?
Dress like most dudes.
Work the jobs most dudes work.
Take the safe path.
Stay deep in the hive Mr. Worker Bee.
Trust me, there is always a place in line.
Your cubicle is waiting.
It's simple.
Don't expect out of this what you aren't willing to put in or in other words, you can only win what you're willing to put in the middle.