Something I've come across in my dating and even married life.
If you are a high value, masculine, real man....your woman knows and on some level accepts that you will stray.
This is what it is.
My ex-wife knew this going into it.
In fact, we discussed it.
The girl before her I dated took me back after so many flings that on some level, it was something she had come to accept.
The girl I'm with now....she has already brought up and accepted that I will eventually stray.
She accepts it as a reality of being with me, of being with a man.
I've found, honestly, it's only motherfucking OTHER people who make it an issue.
Your girl will be upset, she will pout, she will rage, she will whatever....that is her drug and you are the dealer.
Nothing puts dread into a woman like a power struggle for you.
She has to value you for this to be case.
A common, basic, piece of shit worthless man is not fighting over.
Your woman half expects, no fully expects, that other bitches want you if she respects you.
A woman will not leave you if you cheat. She will leave you if a ton of other people know you are cheating on her. B/c she cannot rationalize her way around how other people see her.
Only a truly broken woman can live with knowing other people pity her.
If you are a high value, masculine, real man....your woman knows and on some level accepts that you will stray.
This is what it is.
My ex-wife knew this going into it.
In fact, we discussed it.
The girl before her I dated took me back after so many flings that on some level, it was something she had come to accept.
The girl I'm with now....she has already brought up and accepted that I will eventually stray.
She accepts it as a reality of being with me, of being with a man.
I've found, honestly, it's only motherfucking OTHER people who make it an issue.
Your girl will be upset, she will pout, she will rage, she will whatever....that is her drug and you are the dealer.
Nothing puts dread into a woman like a power struggle for you.
She has to value you for this to be case.
A common, basic, piece of shit worthless man is not fighting over.
Your woman half expects, no fully expects, that other bitches want you if she respects you.
A woman will not leave you if you cheat. She will leave you if a ton of other people know you are cheating on her. B/c she cannot rationalize her way around how other people see her.
Only a truly broken woman can live with knowing other people pity her.
Good post, dead on correct.
ReplyDeleteI don't know where you find them - these women who have no self respect, no self value.
ReplyDeleteI would drop any man like a hot potato if he stepped out on me. Well, first I might teach him a lesson and do the same thing to him.
Then I'd drop him. And it would be so easy because by showing me he didn't really value me, he's not a high-value man at all.
reality doesn't always meet expectation. your simplified assumption that a woman who accepts men step out means they have no self-respect must lead you to live a very meaningful and insightful life.
ReplyDeletewe don't have to like things for them to be true. a woman can have self-respect and know her man steps out. Jackie O comes to mind. Virtually every woman married to a powerful man makes this bargain. Does that mean she has no self respect?
What a simple way to view relationship dynamics. Your life must be wonderfully base and simple. So many simple absolutes. It must be thrilling to be you.