Dating: When Reality Meets Expectation

It's a strange, brave, new time friends.

20% of women you're approaching are likely on anti-depressants.
This is not including alcohol, marijuana, other recreational drugs, shit processed food and likely a lack of exercise aside from her brain being fucking hammered with instant stimuli via social media and a lifetime of conditioning giving the illusion of choice.

This is the poor girl you're talking to at the bar.

Think about the CAVCALCADE of things standing between you and her.
It is a fucking black hole of ennui, boredom, anti-depressants, distractions, and expectation clashing with reality and cognitive dissonance.

If you're here, and you're reading this blog, you're deconstructing some of the concrete they've been pouring into your brain since childhood.

Now, though, armed with antiquated and perhaps classical views, you are speaking to the women of modernity who is entitled to 12 lives in one (college, party, woman, mother, career woman, independent).
You think a relationship should not be entirely egalitarian.
You think a man and a woman perhaps at times have clearly defined roles and responsibilities.
You think a man should expect his wife not have been with 20 dudes before him.
Et cetera.
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She is unhappy.
She is empty.
She is pumped up on the crack rock pipe of reality TV and social media and twitter and instagram and facebook and when she needs to crash she pops her Klonezapam or however-the-fuck-you-spell-it, or gets high or drowns it all in alcohol so she can mindlessly ass grind some dude and her need to connect, her need for intimacy in any capacity spews out infantile and unrestricted because dyke looking feminists have told her she's liberated and that she can act like a man and that the patriarchy has been controlling her and her mother and her grandmother so really sucking that random dude's dick in the bathroom at the concern while she had a boyfriend was just something that happened and it doesn't say anything about her as a person......and I'm done.

Let that shit spin for motherfucking 6-7 years and she hits the wall if not already or she's already divorced and saddled with a kid or two.
It's the men who are shit now. It's everyone's fault but her own for her own unhappiness.
Same goes for the men who over-exaggerate women as whores and unworthy of marriage.
I find it exceedingly rare and you gotta sift through a lot of fucking shit, but the gems are out there.

I've never liked the misogyny of the manosphere.
It's misplaced.
The society, the structure, the socialization is to blame.
The competing ideas of reality versus expectation and we men are partially to blame.
We've watched it unfold and not stood our fucking ground and fought the good fight.
We paid for imagined and real sins of the patriarchy and now, if we are men, we must work to survive and flourish in a most inhospitable time.

Good luck and happy hunting.
         - Yrs. in Christ