Step 1

Start.


Whatever it is, just start.
You want to start picking up chicks?
Initiate a conversation with a girl today.
Better yet, if that's scary, start a conversation with a dude next to you at a coffee shop.
Compliment his shoes.
Ask him what he's reading.
Lie and say you've read that book and liked it.
Whatever.
This sounds silly, but whatever it takes to get the ball rolling.
Great things have small beginnings.


But nothing succeeds or can eventually succeed until you begin.
Every day you delay you are a day or more further from what you want.


So, start small.
You don't have to endure a thousand rejections.
Open your eyes and ears.
Become a more sociable person.
I'm incredibly capable of going days without being social. I have my strong, silent, dark, contemplative vibe down to an art form (what girls tell me later after we begin dating).


But I've honed it and toyed with it, and I'm also capable of being very gentle with the woman/women in my life. Girls love dichotomy...but I am jumping ahead.
IF you're not as social as you'd like to be, I'm here to tell you that you must start being more social.


Do the thing as they say on that meme.
Do the thing.
You get better at free throws by shooting more free throws. Study and youtube videos and theory are cool, but until you travel to the moon, you don't know that you can actually get there.
Start small.
Don't even expect to start a conversation.

Just say something/give value to another human being.


It just might blow your mind.


 - Good luck and happy hunting,
        - Yrs. in Christ