Monday, June 17, 2013

A Retrospective on Fashion as it Pertains to (My) Bangs



This will be an attempt to address the parallel of pulling girls and what I was wearing.
I know some will discount this entire attempt b/c of the million other variables involved, but whatever.

I have never taken a girl home while wearing a tie.
I used to be known for dressing relatively well whilst heading downtown for a sojourn into the madness of the revelry of drinking and flirting.

But, I have never taken a girl home and had sex with her while wearing a tie.
You can say what you will and disregard this theory, and others may have evidence for the contrary, but I rarely wear a tie out anymore.

In fact, I've rarely made out with a girl whilst wearing a tie.
We could debate theory and whatever else to understand, but as I learned in college, it's not so important that you understand "why" with women, but rather than you observe the behavior and act accordingly.

The lesson here is not that YOU should NOT wear ties. But rather, look back over your successes and search for commonalities with which to establish a winning formula. Your formula doesn't have to and likely won't be mine. I can't use sarcasm with girls. It always fails miserably. Perhaps it's my delivery, or perhaps I'm handsome enough it triggers too much insecurity on the girl's part. It doesn't matter, but trial and error has taught me it simply is not a tool in my tool box of seduction.

For me, I used to think what you wore was important, and dressing nice as important. Now, I don't think so, so much as it's about HOW you wear your clothing and being congruent with your personality. I tend to wear short sleeves or a long sleeve which I pull up around my forearms and something that suits my frame/accents my shoulders. I don't often wear hats as they were typically accessories to a hat/dress shirt/vest et cetera.
For me, girls seem to take a "look but don't touch" policy when I'm overdressed.
Go figure.

Fuck logic and just go by trial and error.
Which necessitates that you be out there trying weekend after weekend.
If you're going to do it, go hard or go home.
What suits me may or may not suit you as we likely have completely different in many regards elements to our game.

If you're out and a girl compliments something you're wearing, make a mental note.
If you're out and a girl asks where you bought something, make a mental note.

Welcome to the club, let's begin.

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